It’s hard to believe that it’s almost February 1st and Valentine’s Day is around the corner! January is such a LONGGGGGG month. Ben and I have been chatting about what we should do for V-day this year, it would be easy to say ehhh, “lets just stay home and not make it a thing”. Especially now with having kids, going out requires a babysitter and a bit more effort/planning. But keeping your marriage strong, healthy and happy requires work sometimes. I like to think Ben and I make the effort for each other throughout the year (when we aren’t taking care of our businesses, the kids, the dog, the house, the bills, you get the picture) Valentine’s Day gives us that extra nudge to be more romantic and make some time for one another. This past October we celebrated 10 years of marriage in PARIS, it was a trip dreams are made of. The most romantic week we’ve ever had besides our honeymoon. I honestly think we appreciated the time alone together SOO MUCH MORE 10 years later vs. as newlyweds when we were still actually babies ourselves.
Anyway I digress, it’s funny how time shifts your perspective and appreciation of your significant other. Now back to Valentines Day ideas; if you’re dating, engaged, just married or married for awhile, I thought it would be fun to share some date night ideas! If you want to make it a night out or stay in. Plus decor, fun outfits to FIT the occasion 😉 and some gift ideas!
Welcome to our home all ready for Valentine’s Day let me first show you some of my Valentine’s decor before I share my ideal romantic night in. You guys know I love decorating my farmers porch each season and here I kept out some winter and Christmas decor with the sled and pine trees, but adding some cute pops of red a banner I made and a cute pillow that I’ll link at the bottom of this post.
A few romantic pink and red Valentine’s Day touches around the home really make it feel special. I always love adding a pretty pillow, cozy blanket and some garlands on the fireplace.
There is something to be said about a cozy relaxing night at home. If you have kids and can’t get a babysitter and want to spend the night IN make it special. I personally love a good cozy night at home. Some fresh flowers, glass of red and a roaring fire instantly make for a romantic night at home. If you’re up for it cook a romantic dinner, but who are us mom’s kidding?! If you worked all day or took care of kids all day you probably don’t feel like cooking an elaborate meal FOR ANYONE haha. If you ARE going to stay in and too tired to cook, I suggest ordering your favorite takeout but have it delivered RIGHT after the kids go to bed. Light some candles, sit and enjoy the meal together. Our favorite date night at home delivery food is Sushi and I always set it up on our own pretty sushi dishes.
it’s always fun to binge watch a new show together. I just finished “YOU” on Netflix- it’s creepy, kind of sexy, kind of romantic in a twisted way 😉 maybe a little 50 Shades? too much? Or just play it safe and watch a chic flick? I think I may force Ben to watch THIS with me, ha I sense the resistance already. Enjoying time together at home, with a few of these simple ideas will make it a special night with out having to go crazy on an expensive meal outside the home.
If you are bored of the same old dinner out and want to really change it up. I suggest an activity or experience together. Below are some things we love to do together or things we want to try soon: (Make a reservation ASAP)
I framed some romantic photos from our trip to PARIS and hung them above our bed, it’s a simple gift idea (one that I’m waiting to see how long it takes him to notice ;)) I also love these items as well:
I hope this gives you some ideas for decorating and celebrating Valentine’s Day with your special someone. If you stay in or go out just enjoy the time together! 10 Years later and I still get excited to go out on a date with my hubby! Now to decide…what should we do for Valentine’s Day this year?!
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